You’re finally turning 21. Gone are the days of relying on your older friends to buy you beer. It’s finally up to you to navigate the bar scene by yourself, hopefully without looking like a newbie or making too many mistakes along the way.
With these foolproof tips, even the most experienced of bar-goers will never know it’s your first time.
1. Doorman Do’s and Don’ts
2. Bartender, Over Here!
3. Whatcha Drinkin’?
The moral of the story is to at least talk to your friends before approaching the bar instead of assuming you’ll pick your favorite drink on the first try. Chances are, discovering your drink of choice will actually take a while and a lot of taste testing. It took me almost two years of college to realize that my drink of choice is anything containing gin, which is a spirit derived from juniper berries. Who knew I’d love the taste of pine needles so much? Not me.
22-year-old Jordan Sward advises new 21-year-olds to at least have an idea of what kind of liquor they want mixed in their drink. “Sounds simple, but the first time I was asked what kind of vodka I wanted in my mixed drink, I drew a blank. If you don’t have a favorite, say ‘house is fine.’ It’s often the cheapest.” [ed. note: And probably the worst tasting. *gags uncontrollably*]
4. Hey BIG Spender!
5. Just Say ‘No’
Whether you like it or not, turning 21 means that everyone around you is going to try and get you a tad more drunk than you should ever be. Another shocker that most 21-year-olds forget: you can refuse drinks and go on to live a full and healthy life. Actually, I recommend it.
“When I first turned 21 everyone bought me shots,” Barrick said. “And, I drank more than my newbie 21-year-old body should have drank. It’s OK to refuse drinks and shots that others buy you. They’re not the ones that will be suffering the next day with an agonizing hangover.”
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10 More Tips to Add to The Virgin Bar Guide for Turning 21
Written by Katelyn Dwarpaul
People anticipate their 21st birthday more than any other birthday in their entire life, and for good reason. When you turn 21, you get to trade in your vertical I.D. card for a horizontal one, which vests you with the power to purchase alcohol. You deserve to make an epic moment like this one as memorable as possible. You don’t want to fumble your first drink order on your big day.
Here’s a foolproof guide for getting your 21st birthday right.
6. Lingo to Know
Depending on the type of bar you go to, asking for a Coors Lite isn’t going to cut it. You might not even find a canned beverage in sight. Instead, you’ll see rows and rows of bottles you don’t recognize and words like dirty, finger, stiff, neat and on the rocks.
In the bar world, the word “dirty” usually precedes the word “martini.” A Dirty Martini means that they added olive brine to a regular Martini. You use fingers as a type of measurement for spirits. Hold your finger out and set it against the base of your glass, then measure the height. Stiff and neat more or less mean the same thing—you want your drink strong.Lastly, on the rocks means over ice.
7. Day Drinking
Some consider day drinking taboo. Others claim, “It’s 5 o’ clock somewhere!” Most of us just day drink at brunch. When it comes to brunch, you can’t go wrong with a mimosa. You can get them in any flavor, from orange, to passionfruit and even lychee. Plus, bottomless deals give you major bang for your buck.
8. Top Shelf
You’ve probably heard the term “top shelf” mentioned in about a dozen rap and pop songs. Top shelf refers to the alcohol kept on the upper shelves at bars. People covet this stuff and the high price tag proves it. In other words, top shelf liquor equals hella expensive.
You should definitely treat yourself to something special every now and then, but top shelf liquor generally isn’t worth the splurge. You may feel like that b—h when you’re drinking it, but the glamorous feeling lasts only as long as it takes for the cheque to arrive.
9. Shoot Your Shot
Every college student either loves or hates shots. Shots can be an efficient way of getting buzzed (a little too efficient if we’re being honest), but the taste can definitely make you gag. Turning 21 means that suddenly you can order exotic shots like Blowjobs, Orgasms (yes, we are still talking alcohol here, people), Kamikazes and Jolly Ranchers.
“You should definitely be careful when ordering shots at bars. The taste can be pretty deceiving and before you know it, your friends will be towing you out the bar,” UCLA senior Alana Singh said.
Remember, these drinks can be dangerously delicious, so know your limits and stick to them!
10. Cocktail Anatomy
All cocktails aren’t created equal. At most bars you may notice two different cocktail categories: Standard Cocktails and Craft Cocktails. You may already be familiar with Standard Cocktails, classics like Margaritas, Piña Coladas and Cosmopolitans (a.k.a. that trendy pink drink they guzzle down in Sex in The City). You can think of Craft Cocktails as one of a kind house-made concoctions.
“[Craft Cocktails] will likely have better quality ingredients, as opposed to the sugary mixers they tend to use in Standard Cocktails. But Craft Cocktails tend to be more expensive,” Barney’s Beanery bartender Greg Duncan said.
Remember, one cocktail can be equivalent to up to three to four shots. Take it easy, especially with those Long Island Iced Teas.
11. Wine Time
For those of you who prefer dry (a.k.a. not sweet) wines, you’ll probably enjoy exploring the world of red wine. Most college students who like red wine prefer Pinot Noir. Students who prefer something on the sweeter side can consider Muscato, a cult classic. If you find yourself in-between, maybe go for a Sauvignon Blanc, Rosé or Chardonnay.
“The world of wine can be confusing, for sure. I think the key is to pick a category and stick to it until you find your favorites. The first time I tried Rosé I thought it wasn’t that bad, though not that great either. Still, I stuck with it and ended up eventually finding some Rosés that I love!” University of Tampa senior Sariyah Mann said.
Bougie people may worship it, but you shouldn’t let that intimidate you. When you explore the world of wine, your palette widens and you discover what you like best in the process.
12. Hard Favorites
Your innocent heart wasn’t the only thing to harden as you transitioned to adulthood. In case you didn’t know, now you can find hard versions of your favorite childhood beverages, like lemonade and cider.
Will people judge you for enjoying a Mike’s Hard Lemonade after you turn 21? Maybe. If this ever happens, you can say f—k ‘em and enjoy your hard lemonade. Alternatively, you can opt for another hard beverage. Hard seltzers, like the ever-popular White Claw, can easily help you save face. You can even try hard cider and hard kombucha.
When you turn 21, drinking becomes less of a “Let’s get plastered immediately!” thing and more of a “Let’s get mildly tipsy and just enjoy the vibes” kind of thing. Socialization becomes the point, not just getting completely s—t-faced. You may wonder how you could maintain moderate, enjoyable levels of tipsiness throughout the night. The answer: you eat. The bar sells food for a reason, eat your carbs and let the good times roll.
14. Hydrate or Die-drate
Alcohol seriously dehydrates you. You feel hungover the next day because of this dehydration. Save yourself the misery and just drink up. You can try guzzling a gallon of water before bed, but you’ll probably regret it when you wake up too early the next day on account of a dire urge to pee.
15. You Do You
You might be thinking, “Hell yeah! I’m ready to drink!” or “Drinking seems cool, but maybe it’s not for me.” Either way, you do you. Drinking can be fun for some people, but not for everyone. Never let anyone pressure you into doing something you don’t feel comfortable doing. If you want to drink your Mike’s Hard Lemonade or drink good ol’ soft lemonade, do it proudly. Either way, make a toast to fun nights ahead.
Numbers 6-15 added by Katelyn Dwarpaul on March 31, 2o21.